Mental Health

7 Tips To Cope With Racing Thoughts

Racing thoughts can feel overwhelming but you’re not powerless. Discover science-backed techniques to cope with racing thoughts.

By URLife Team
26 Jun 2025

Racing thoughts can feel like a storm inside your head—constant, loud, and hard to stop. Whether triggered by stress, anxiety,  or lack of sleep, these thoughts can interrupt your day and drain your energy. 

They often arrive uninvited in the form of worries, unfinished conversations, imagined scenarios, or fears that spiral out of control. What makes racing thoughts so exhausting isn’t just their speed, but their relentlessness. They hijack your focus, steal your sense of calm, and blur the line between real problems and imagined ones. Left unchecked, this mental noise can affect everything from your sleep and mood to your ability to make decisions. But the good news is: with the right tools and understanding, it’s possible to break the cycle of intrusive thoughts .

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1. Interrupt the Loop With Pattern Disruption

The brain forms mental habits just like physical ones. When you constantly rehearse negative or anxious thoughts, you reinforce neural pathways.
To break this cycle, you need a disruption technique that’s both physical and cognitive.

 Try this:

  • Verbal interruption: Say “stop” out loud.
  • Snap an elastic band gently on your wrist.
  • Do a quick, unexpected action such as stand up, drink cold water, or change rooms.

This tells the amygdala (your brain’s fear centre) that “We’re not going down this path again.”

Based on 2022 neuroplasticity research published in the journal Nature, frequent interruption weakens the habitual pathway over time and builds cognitive flexibility. This eventually leads to better mental health.

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2. Label Your Thought Patterns )

Psychologist Ethan Kross, author of Chatter, suggests creating distance from your thoughts through mental labelling. This activates the prefrontal cortex, your reasoning centre and cools emotional reactivity.

Example:
Instead of getting lost in “What if I mess up?”, say: “I’m having an anxious thought about failure.” This creates a mental pause between you and your thoughts, making it easier to disengage.

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3. Engage in Cognitive Defusion

From Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), cognitive defusion helps you see thoughts as stories, not facts. Cognitive defusion is a psychological technique that teaches you to observe your thoughts without getting entangled in them. Instead of treating every thought as truth or command, you learn to see that your thoughts are not always accurate. This helps to reduce its emotional impact and allows you to respond with intention rather than react on autopilot.

Try this:

Instead of thinking:
“I’m going to fail this presentation.”

Say to yourself:
“I’m having the thought that I’m going to fail this presentation.”

Now take it one step further:
“I notice I’m having the thought that I’m going to fail this presentation.”

Each layer adds distance between you and the thought. It goes from being your reality to just an observation of your mind at work.

4. Create a Worry Window

When thoughts spin all day, they often come from unfinished cognitive loops. Creating boundaries for worry gives your mind a place to “park” these thoughts, which is also known as containment strategy.

How it works:

  • Set aside 15 minutes daily to do nothing but worry. Write your thoughts down during that time.
  • Outside of this window, tell your brain, “Not now. I’ll address this during my worry time.”

This teaches your brain containment, a core skill in anxiety and stress management

5. Try Polyvagal Regulation

Your vagus nerve connects brain and body and when it’s stimulated, it calms the nervous system. Chronic racing thoughts often reflect a dysregulated autonomic state. Useful tools to stimulate the vagus nerve include:

  • Humming or singing slowly
  • Gargling with cold water
  • Deep diaphragmatic breathing with long exhales
  • Slow neck turns while exhaling

Research by Dr. Stephen Porges (Polyvagal Theory) shows that vagal tone is directly linked to reduced anxiety and better emotional regulation.

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6. Anchor to a Task That Requires Full Attention )

To disrupt racing thoughts, try to fully occupy your working memory with something mildly demanding but not overwhelming.

Ideas:

  • Solve a puzzle or brain teaser
  • Knead dough or do fine-motor crafts
  • Do complex origami or an intricate colouring activity

This functions as a cognitive override, pulling your focus out of the default-mode network (where overthinking lives).

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7. Shift to Internal Curiosity, Not Control 

When we try to forcefully stop racing thoughts, we unintentionally signal to the brain that these thoughts are dangerous or unacceptable. This heightens mental resistance, triggering even more anxiety and mental chatter.

Ask yourself:

  • “What is my mind trying to protect me from right now?”
  • “What’s underneath this urgency?”
  • “If this thought had a shape or colour, what would it be?”

This non-judgmental curiosity softens resistance and activates your brain’s default compassion circuits, calming the limbic system. The limbic system is the part of your brain responsible for processing emotions, especially fear, threat, and survival responses.

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Breaking the cycle of racing thoughts is not about silencing your mind. It's about changing your relationship to your thoughts, and giving your nervous system the tools to return to safety. With practice, you can teach your brain that it’s okay to let go of the loop and reclaim your calm.

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